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Why wait before you buy?

PauseBuy wants to help you spend money on what truly makes you happy. Below is what research says, and what it doesn’t know yet.

Doing vs. owning

Evidence: Moderate

On average, money spent on things you do brings a little more joy than money spent on things you own.

Limit: The effect is smaller than early studies suggested, and part of it may be publication bias. It shrinks for unpleasant or solo experiences.

Source: Weingarten & Goodman 2020, Journal of Consumer Research141 studies, d ≈ 0.38

Looking forward

Evidence: Moderate

Waiting for an experience usually feels better than waiting for a thing. Looking forward is part of the fun.

Limit: It shows the wait itself feels good. It does not show that waiting makes you happier later.

Source: Kumar, Killingsworth & Gilovich 2014, Psychological Science4 studies, incl. experience sampling

Buying time

Evidence: Moderate

People who pay to save time tend to be a little more satisfied with life.

Limit: Mostly surveys. The cause-and-effect test was one small experiment with 60 people in one city.

Source: Whillans, Dunn, Smeets, Bekkers & Norton 2017, PNAS6 samples, n = 4,469, d ≈ 0.24

Spending on others

Evidence: Moderate

Spending some money on other people often makes people a little happier.

Limit: A pre-registered replication found the effect in two of three experiments, and the differences were small.

Source: Aknin, Dunn, Proulx, Lok & Norton 2020, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology3 experiments, about 7,900 people

Spending that fits you

Evidence: Weak

People whose spending fits their personality report more satisfaction with life.

Limit: One research team so far. We found no independent replication.

Source: Matz, Gladstone & Stillwell 2016, Psychological Science76,000+ bank transactions

The new wears off

Evidence: Moderate

The joy of something new fades over time. Noticing it and adding variety can slow the fade.

Limit: Participants were university students, followed for only three months.

Source: Sheldon & Lyubomirsky 2012, Personality and Social Psychology BulletinN = 481, 3 waves

Money on hand

Evidence: Weak

Having money you can reach easily goes with higher life satisfaction, beyond what income explains.

Limit: Customers of one UK bank at one point in time, so we can’t tell which causes which.

Source: Ruberton, Gladstone & Lyubomirsky 2016, EmotionN = 585

Income and happiness

Evidence: Moderate

On average, more income goes with more well-being, with smaller steps as income grows. It doesn’t tell you what to buy.

Limit: Correlational, mostly employed US adults. For the least happy people, gains level off at higher incomes.

Source: Killingsworth, Kahneman & Mellers 2023, PNAS33,391 US adults, experience sampling

What we don’t know yet

Evidence: Weak

We found no reliable study showing that waiting before you buy reduces regret. The little data there is has not been checked well.

So the wait in PauseBuy is a low-risk habit, not a promise. If you still want it after the wait, that’s fine. If you don’t, that answer is useful too.

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